Ah! Women. You just got to love us. I mean seriously, why wouldn’t you?
Men say women are hard to understand… really? How hard is it to understand women? I mean, Come on.
Are you single? Know anyone who is? Not everyone who is single doesn’t want to be in a relationship. It’s just that, they don’t know who to date or how to date (did I just say this?)… But it’s the truth anyway.
Sometimes you meet a beautiful woman who has everything you’ve been looking for, but for some reason, it just doesn’t work out.
What does this mean? That you aren’t lucky or that love just isn’t for you?
Truth is, no! Just like men, women too, have types that they look for in men. Different tastes and different needs. And I’m not talking about physical appearances.
If you think women only look for handsome and attractive men, then it might be the reason you’re single. If you need to understand women, you need to wear their shoes. Women don’t think the same as men when it comes to relationships.
A woman who needs a serious relationship will go and dig deeper for the type of man she needs in her life.
No pun intended but for men, it’s always beauty and outer looks that catch their attention first. They’re driven by desire and lust. There’s a saying that when it comes to women, men think with their head…I mean the head down between their legs.
The types of men women love and want don’t really differ among the gender. No matter the age or anything else, these are the types that any woman would need in her life.
If you find that you fit in most of these types, and relationships still don’t work out for you, then it’s either one or both of you have some toxic behaviors or you don’t know what or who exactly you need in life. It’s that simple.
These are the types of men that women love and find attractive all the damn time! See if you fit in any of them or what you could change.
- Confident means feeling or showing confidence in one’s abilities and qualities.
Every woman needs a confident man in her life. It doesn’t matter whether you’re rich, poor, educated or not. Women just love confidence in men.
The way you hold yourself when you walk or hold a conversation with them or other people just attracts them and may I say… turns them on.
I’m yet to see a woman who would choose a man who looks down all the time over a man who makes eye contact. Confidence emits an aura of masculinity and most of the time, confident men are considered strong.
You’ll just hear a woman say “he’s confident and strong”. It’s just that way.
- Supportive means being reliable, providing encouragement and help
Women love to be supported and provided for. Even once in a while. Don’t let people fool you, no matter how rich a woman is, they always want a man who can still provide and support them somehow. Women love to be spoilt.
No woman wants a man who doesn’t pay the bills just because she has enough in her wallet.
Support her in the things that she does and give her a helping hand whenever she needs it. When a woman sees that you support her either financially or emotionally, she holds on to you. Either as a friend or more.
- Being honest means free of deceit, truthful and sincere.
Who doesn’t like honesty? Seriously not just women. We all love honesty and to be told the truth no matter how bad or hurtful it may be.
Women don’t like dishonest men one single bit. When you start lying and hiding things from them, they feel betrayed and will eventually shut you out completely.
No matter what it is, never lie to a woman about anything (except telling her she’s beautiful or not fat or look nice) may destroy the way she perceives you. Dishonesty makes a person mistrust you.
And what’s the point of any kind of relationship without trust? …Nothing.
- Hygienic simply means maintenance of well being and keeping clean.
In case you didn’t know, no woman loves an unhygienic man. A man who is dirty all the time doesn’t bathe well, smell nice, and doesn’t take care of his environment and surroundings is a major turn off for any woman.
Women love clean men because they complement their personalities.
Be clean and tidy all the time (the only sweat women like smelling on their men is workout sweat ha-ha). If your type of man who doesn’t consider male hygiene all the time, please do. Women love it.
And don’t forget to wash where the sun doesn’t shine ALL THE TIME.
- Respectful means feeling or showing deference and respect
“A respectful man was raised right”. Women love respect and a man who respects other people, especially women, is always considered a “heck yes” type of guy.
Any woman would love to be with a respectful man by her side. Being respectful sets you aside as a total and complete gentleman.
A woman will feel safe with a respectful man because she knows he wouldn’t harm her physically or do any emotional torture and abuse on her. Respect a woman and understand when she says “NO” or “YES”.
PURPOSE IN LIFE.
- Purpose in life is the pulling factor to get what you want in life and knowing who you’re meant to be.
Women love men who have purposes in life. A woman will not be with a man who sleeps and eats all day or who doesn’t have a vision for a steady life and future.
A purpose in life is what drives you to be a better version of yourself, what makes you wake up in the morning, and hustle to get what you want in life.
The purpose in life, is to know what you need and how to achieve it now or later. You know exactly where you are heading to become successful in life.
- Attentive means full attention, watching and listening carefully.
Women love attention. We crave for it every time of the day. Women get happy when you notice and pay attention to them for even the slightest things.
they love it when you notice their haircuts, new clothes, and shoes too. but most importantly, they love it when you notice when their sad, happy, have certain issues, or need help with something even without them having to say it to you.
Also keep in mind that birthdays, anniversaries, and other remembrances are highly important and when you forget them, they feel unimportant to you. Be attentive to her and her needs.
GREAT SENSE OF HUMOuR
- Sense of humor is a persons ability to perceive humour or appreciate a joke.
Seriously, who would need to be with a grumpy person all the time? a person who doesn’t have a sense of humor is not only annoying but also very difficult to be with.
We all need a good laugh at least every day. laughing is good for the soul and general health. If a person can’t make you laugh, at least he should be able to make you smile.
Women love men who can make them smile and laugh because being around them, makes them happy. It’s easier to forget about your problems even for a while when you have a humorous person around you.
THOUGHTFUL AND CARING.
- Thoughtful means demonstrating kindness and consideration for others.
- Caring means being kind, sensitive, and empathetic.
As I said, women love to be paid attention to. So pay attention to them, reflect on the situation when they need help and address them with love, compassion, and kindness.
You need to be caring, treat them like the gems they are, and be thoughtful of their feelings, especially with what you say to them because when you say hurtful things or spiteful words to them, they distance themselves from you and your existence.
Be empathetic towards them and understand what they need from you.
- Being smart means clean, tidy and well dressed.
Being hygienic and smart complement one another. when you’re smart, you naturally become more attractive to look at, and to be with.
Wear good, clean and nice clothes for a start. find nice shoes, always smell nice, get your hair done nicely, and take care of yourself. You don’t need to buy and wear expensive things to be smart. Most men wear simple thrifted clothes and still look amazing.
Do not wear different colors on your body like a rainbow in real life and certainly, do not overdo your perfume or cologne to the point that it gets irritating.
There might be other types of men that women love apart from these, but these are the ultimate 10.
Some other types are mainly just bonuses depending on what a woman is looking or searching for such as deep voices or fast cars.
But then again, maybe women really are, complicated and hard to understand.
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